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Razi Bil Raza e Elahi
Be happy as Allah Wills
By Barrister Amjad Malik
I get hurt many times but try not to be revengeful and
not leave trying again Especially good deed !
I will be hurt more, if I do a good thing and return is
bad and I get hurt and as a result I leave doing that good stuff .That will
hurt me more I try not to keep my heart full of grudges
prejudices,malice revenge or lying or promises I know I will not honour, claim
I will not settle, expectations I will not meet.
I was once asked, When was the last time you remover that
you that were hurt the most...considering by people...?
And my answer was very simple that 'I hurt every day and
I hurt a lot that I even cry as I am a kind soul but I get up and move on every
next day."
Above all, most greater
Sunnah of prophet PBUH on whose honour my life is sacrificed is that to
keep our heart clean of any worldly dirt and keep it clean of malice, revenge,
jealousy and prejudices.
And Hazrat Ali RA rightly says that When you do a good
deed , donot expect reward from that
human in return except God Almighty in whose hand is our life as humans are
bound to hurt in return.
Hope it makes sense as When we did all we could and
disappoinment was all that resulted? The answer is very simple.
We must learn to come to terms with the notion of 'Razi bil Raza e Elahi ' means to be happy as
Allah wills. Surrendering our will on the will of God. That's the rule or
philosophy that keeps me going and is universal.
I do a lot of things day in day out some I win some I
lose as the normal people do but the reaction is different which is quite
common.
I make lot of choices ever day some turns out lucky for
me some not so lucky but I give my best on each occasion daily. Now when I
lose, I lose that one project exam trial , case, test or tribulation but not my
heart or soul or my will to do better, more good or try to do better until
'death makes us unable to try again '. Life is all about trying in right
direction. One minute is not the same to the other so we will be doing a lot of
things between our childhood to old age
in average 65 years
From she 1-20 with parents and from
20-40 with extended family wife and children and in
business's profession or home in case of housewives nursing children and from
40-60 Middle age and from 60-80 reversing towards him as retired pensioners.
We are bound to make choices some right and some wrong
but That's life .
He (almighty) will give you a lesson with every move you make but it's
all about giving your best and then leaving on him (God almighty) and if you do
not leave on him or be Content on his
will then he will make you tired of what is your wish and if you are agreed in
his will He may give you a reward in some other way or may be why you desire
was not meant for you
Remember , prophet Musa was kept in the house of Pharaoh
And our national poet Sir iqbal RA
rightly says:
"Be khatar kood pada aatish e namrood Mein ishq Aqal
hey mehv e tamasha e lub e baam abhi (iqbal RA)"
In the end I will shelter in the Shelter of a hadees e
qudsi and if we apply on our acts and
doings the very Life will be very peaceful and enjoyable and simple as Allah
has sent us with a purpose , what is that he will reveal until then you try doing
good and keeping good and learning good admiring his creation.
Hadees-e-Qudsi is as narrated
"Aye Ibn E Adam!
Ek Teri Chahat Ha.....Aur Ek Meri Chahat Hai Per Hoga
Wohi.....Jo Meri Chahat Hai Pas Agar Tu Ne Supard Kar Diya Apney Aap Ko Us
K....Jo Meri Chahat Hai To Mein Bakhsh Doonga Tujhey Wo Bhi Jo Teri Chahat
Hai....
Par Agar Tu Ne RuGardaani Ki Us Se
Jo Meri Chahat Hai
To Mein Thaka Doonga Tujh Ko Us Mein
Jo Teri Chahat Hai
Phir Ho Ga Wohi
Jo Meri Chahat Hai"
Try applying 'razi bil raza e Elahi ' as a driving force
or a principle And Hadees e qudsi (the one quoted above) and hope difference
tells you itself in your lives. Hope it
makes sense, it did to me when I lost my dearest father who meant a world to me
a friend, an affectionate father and a shirks in this cruel world but in the
end I learnt one day we all will have to return to him and we are helpless
except to surrender to the will of God .
Barrister Amjad Malik wrote this article after the death
of his beloved father and on the probing
question of his student
28.08.2015
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